Conflict Coaching

If one or more of the following statements is true for you, please reach out to me. I’d like to offer you a free consultation to help you determine if I’m a good person for you to work with.

Are you…

• interested in developing a generative conflict practice in your personal or professional relationships?

• a leader working to support generative conflict culture and positive use of power in your community or organization?

• navigating the challenges that arise in socially conscious helping professions like teaching, healthcare, or social work?

• looking for support navigating conflict in a relationship or family system?

• driven by a sense of purpose or dream you’re seeking to actualize?

• someone who views the highest form of power as the ability to choose between love and fear?

• someone who enjoys improv, art, or thinking about your life in metaphor?

• a business owner interested in using conscious conflict as a powerful marketing strategy?

I offer a few tailored packages for folks looking for a defined outcome and scope of work.

Developing Your Inner Talisman (8 sessions over 1-2 months)

A talisman is a mythological object individuals carry so they can enter trying circumstances and emerge unscathed. This package of work helps you contact a deeper sense of self and purpose in your work, which you can use like an inner talisman to help you grow through difficult situations that arise in your life and work. We’ll do this by exploring your earliest childhood memory or dream, the issues that give you the most trouble in life, and the moments when you feel most aligned with your purpose and being.

The eight sessions in this package are completed in 1-2 months, which means meeting once or twice per week. There will be one piece of homework between each session.

Because of the level of commitment involved, this package is ideal for folks who have a break in their lives from the grind of modern life and have time to invest in inward reflection.

Navigating a Complex Conflict (6 sessions over 2 weeks)

This package is for two people who are struggling with a conflict in their relationship they’d like support with. It includes two individual sessions for each person and two relationship sessions where both people meet with me together (six sessions in total). If you have mutual friends or community who care for you both, it is ideal to involve them in our work. If possible, it is also ideal to find a location to do the relationship work in person. Homework may be required.

I like to do the first set of sessions in the first week and the second set of sessions the week after. Depending on how things go, we can consider continuing the work in the same way or adjust the package to support what’s needed.

Dreamwork Intensive (6 sessions over 6 weeks)

Nighttime dreams can offer tremendous value to us in our waking life if we know how to work with them. This package is for folks who are interested in exploring the potential meaning of their nighttime dreams and integrating them into their waking life.

This package includes designing and making use of a dream journal, learning ways of thinking about and working with dreams, and facilitated work we’ll do with your dreams in session. One piece of homework will be required between each session.

A variation on this package can be developed for a group of people who’d like to work together in a group on their dreams. This is ideal for people just beginning to learn about dreamwork.

Generative Conflict Consultancy Group (4 sessions over 1-4 months)

This package is designed for a group of people who would like to pool their funds to receive feedback on real life situations they’re encountering in their generative conflict practice. We’ll treat each session as case study work, so you’ll need to bring challenges you’re facing in order for this to work.

Groups limited to eight participants. There may be homework between sessions.